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“Rabbit Holes and Butterflies”

fren·zy /ˈfrenzē/ noun a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior. Okay, y’all…let’s do this. Vicenza Italy, 1994. this girl and her hubby were invited to a private party at a villa. she saw things that changed her forever. she became obsessed. she wanted to try EVERYTHING. she watched tons of porn, bought […]

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BDSM and sex.

A common misconception that causes havoc at times in the kink community is that BDSM, sex and/or love automatically must go together. While this statement may ring true for a lot of people, it is not true for everyone. It is important not to make the assumption. For many of us, BDSM is the richest […]

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“W/we Need U/us!”

How many of Y/you have seen the movie “Backdraft?” The firefighters had a motto whenever one of them was about to fall and the others grabbed them and held on. They would say, “You go…WE GO!” That has stuck with this girl all these years. To be so committed to someone that you would risk […]

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Your First BDSM Scene

Most partners engaging in BDSM for the first time do have challenges trying to plan on how they want the whole session to go.  Indeed, planning such scenes can be quite personal, however, the guidelines below to help you plan better.  -Create your goals You will have to decide on your expectations and the roles […]

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Surrender

“Once Upon A Time…” She walked in and began to kneel. He said, “No…Inspection.” She obeyed. She looked at Him; His eyes were…different. She looked down; the slap was quick and sharp. She wasn’t expecting it. Her eyes watered. Her cheek burned. Her mouth watered. Is that…blood? Suddenly His hand was on her arm, lifting […]